When you are about to become a parent for the first time, you may find yourself feeling very anxious about the great undertaking you are about to begin. Never fear! Although parenting is not something that should be entered into lightly, you can take comfort from the fact that billions of parents have come before you, and if they have managed to successfully raise their own children, so can you. As you enter into the wonderful world of babies, you’ll simply need to consider a few basics in order to be well on your way to being a great parent.
The first basic to be aware of is nutrition. Babies double in size several times during their first few years of life, and it takes a strong nutritional foundation for them to be able to do so. There has long been a debate over whether breastfed or bottlefed babies are better able to grow and thrive, but it is important to realize that you must make that determination based upon the needs of your own life. So many different types of formula would not be available if it were a dangerously unhealthy option. Talk to your healthcare provider frequently to have your baby’s growth assessed so that you can always ensure that their nutritional needs are being met.
The second basic to be aware of is cleanliness. That’s right – the dreaded diaper. Babies cannot get up and walk themselves to the bathroom when they need to relieve themselves. They rely on their parents to be on the ball and clean up the messes they may make in their diapers. It is extremely important to not rely on diapers to be the determining factor in a baby’s cleanliness, however. Although a disposable diaper may be able to hold larger quantities of waste, a baby should be changed at least as frequently as they eat. The longer their delicate skin is in contact with waste – even if it has been “stored” by a diaper – the higher the likelihood is for infect. Many parents have gone back to cloth diapers because they do not mask the presence of waste as much as disposable diapers and so force more frequent changes that can lead to better health.
The third basic to be aware of is cognitive development. When a baby is awake, they do not miss anything that goes on in the world around them. Although they may not be able to interact and respond as an older child would, it is important to ensure that they remain engaged. By providing stimulation through all five senses, you will be positively impacting the cognitive development of your babies. Touch is very important, here. The more you pick up your child and give physical comfort, the better they will develop. Sight and sound are also extremely important. Invest in the types of toys that do not simply distract, but that actively engage.
As you enter into parenthood, know that your instincts will carry you far in caring for your babies. There are so many resources available that you can consult, as well, that will make your journey as a parent all the more successful.
